“See to it that no one comes short of the grace of God;
that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and by it many be defiled.”
Hebrews 12:15 reminds us we have a responsibility to care for one another.
God freely and abundantly offers us grace –– in turn, we must freely and abundantly offer grace to others.
There was a time when I was incapable of genuinely giving grace certain people in my life. While I found it increasingly easy to share God’s message of unconditional love and grace with those who were struggling, I found it much harder to extend that same measure of forgiveness and grace to people who had hurt me.
However, God has a way of convicting our spirit when He wants us to change.
“Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth,
but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment,
so that it will give grace to those who hear.” (Ephesians 4:29)
Over time, I became more aware of my need to extend grace, and I’ve learned to catch myself when I am in situations where my grace is tested.
Do you struggle at times to extend grace?
Do you wonder what extending grace really looks like in real life?
I was given an assignment in a Bible class one time to randomly witness to strangers and journal my experiences. The first person I approached was a disgruntled sales associate at my local phone store. When I made my request, she gave no kind words, but simply attempted to fix the problem I was having with my phone. My first thought was, I guess I won’t be striking up a conversation with this person.
Then God gently reminded me to about GRACE. In a matter of seconds, I was challenged to consider the possibility that something in this sales person’s life was at the root of her attitude. So, I extended grace in the form of kind words and compliments. Almost immediately her demeanor changed, she opened up, and it seemed as though our conversation began to brighten her day. I shared my faith with her, and she opened up about hers. On my next two stops, I had very similar experiences.
How often do we get caught up in the hustle-bustle of life and neglect to recognize the needs of others? When we run across people with bad attitudes or who are simply down-right rude, we have a choice to make –– will we respond with grace? We all posses the ability to extend grace, but are we ready and willing to do so on a moments notice?
When my husband and I were working through some marital issues, we experienced highs and lows, breakthroughs that made us hopeful and, setbacks that left us feeling hopeless. One of the hardest things to do is to extend grace to someone who has hurt you – yet, grace was exactly what we both needed and had to learn to extend to one another.
Consider the hurt and pain we cause God when we blatantly sin against Him when we turn our backs on Him and choose our ways over His. Yet, His grace is unconditional and unending. He is moved by compassion for our sinful state and is always willing to forgive and forget.
Are we willing to do the same for others?